Tuesday, 26 February 2013

Only One Extraordinary Manager - Part 2 - How to Communicate


My one extraordinary manager – Patrick Walsh – was (and is) a great communicator.  In his role as National Sales Manager, he managed a sales team of around 13 strong individuals who were scattered across Australia and New Zealand.


With such a geographic spread, there was no way he could check up on us and know what we were doing from day to day.  He could not micro-manage us even if he had been inclined that way.  Pat firstly had to select his sales people very carefully; he needed to be able to first, trust us and second, control us yet with a light touch.  After all he was located in Melbourne thousands of kilometres from most of his 13 direct reports.

Pat’s preferred method of communication with each member of his team was the telephone.  He reserved emails for purely administrative matters.  If he wanted to know how we were doing, Pat knew he had to make a personal connection.  On the telephone, he could easily tell if we were happy and working well, or if we were discouraged and lacking motivation.  It was all there in the tone of our voice and in the words we used as we responded to Pat’s perceptive questions. 


Managers can earn respect, trust and admiration from their team members.
 
Mostly we held nothing back from Pat.  We complained; we blamed; we vented our frustrations.  Pat listened and asked more questions, and listened.  Where he could fix something for us, he took it on to his own task list to do so.  He took notes during the conversation and followed up on every issue.  In the following week, he would ask about the progress of an issue or how was a particular prospect working out.  After we had spoken to Pat each week, we felt relieved and less worried as he had somehow taken the load off us simply by listening and understanding. 
 

Like every senior manager, Pat had a massive workload in addition to his management of a team of 13 sales reps.  Yet the area on which focussed most of his time and energies was his people.  I think there were two main reasons why he focussed so much on managing his people:  first, he was acutely aware that our individual success would ensure the success of the whole team and second, his No. 1 responsibility was the achievement of the national sales budget.  He knew that getting to and above budget kept his masters at the executive level happy and effectively out of his hair.  They would forgive other irritants so long as Pat consistently brought the numbers home year after year. 

It has to be said that in his people management skills, Pat was blessed with a natural aptitude for getting to know people quickly and accurately.  He knew each individual’s personality and what made us tick.  He related to each person in his team differently because he was conscious that the words and actions that would be effective to manage one individual would not necessarily work with another.  He was able to suit his message to each individual and yet remain true to himself.  In this way, he was able to gain the best performance from each member of his team.

Pat practised a very practical style of leadership.  He was a servant leader.  Certainly no one in his team would have thought of Pat as a “servant” to our needs and wants.  Yet subtly Pat managed us in a supportive and encouraging way, listening and responding to our problems and concerns and being there to help.  One question that Pat often asked each of his team members was, “How can I help you to do your job better/easier?  He did not demand, he did not blame; he asked what he could do to help.  And in so doing, he built the amazing respect and trust that each of us developed for him.

In the ways this extraordinary manager/leader communicated, there are three lessons: 

1.   Communicate with your team members in personal ways and regularly.  An email is not personal, a text message is not personal; a face-to-face conversation or on the telephone is personal.  Don’t leave it too long in between conversations.  To make it a habit, book it in to your diary for once or twice a week. 

2.    If you know you are poor at relating to people, recognise this deficit in your skills-bank.  Do something about it because it is vitally important to your success as a manager.  As a manager, you can no longer produce all the results yourself.  You must work through your people by understanding them, responding to their different needs and encouraging their efforts.  Actions that will be effective include doing more reading on the topic of managing people, attending professional development courses and asking your manager if you can have some coaching.

3.  To borrow a famous quotation, “Ask not what your people can do for you; ask what you can do for your people.”*  Does the servant-leader model of leadership hold some insights for you?  By listening, responding and offering to help the different people in your team in real, practical ways, you can build their respect and trust over time.  From being trusted, it is only a short step to being the kind of leader that engenders admiration and devotion from their followers.

 * John F. Kennedy, 35th President of the USA

Our next article in this 3-part series – Only One Extraordinary Manager - will look at consistency as an attribute of great manager/leaders.
 
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To your Out-Standing Success,
 
Lynne
 
Lynne Lloyd
Managing Director
People Results
Executive Coaching and Talent Development Workshops
Level 24, 10 Eagle Street, Brisbane, 4000.
PO Box 10073, Adelaide Street, Brisbane, Qld.4000
T  1300 167 981
 
 

 

 

Sunday, 24 February 2013

5 Effective and Do-Able Strategies for Business Networking


1. The Like-ability Factor

For networking success, it helps to be likable.  Let that warmer side of your personality out and smile. Networking is not a direct form of persuasion like selling.  Instead, networking is indirect and depends on building rapport and getting to know someone person-to-person.  Develop your charm quotient and be like-able to attract and engage others.

2. Focus Your Efforts

Focus comes from developing a sense of purpose and an overall plan for networking.  Planning lets you be crystal clear about whom, when and where you will network in order to achieve your goals.  Often we network in a rather haphazard fashion without a clear purpose and direction.  Little wonder if our networking time and efforts feel like we are spinning our wheels and getting nowhere.




Who do you need to know?  Have you got a Networking Plan for 2013?

3.     Diversity

Of course there are many different possibilities for networking.  Before the start of each month, decide and book your chosen networking activities into your calendar.  Naturally you will choose the place and time that is most appropriate to the person or group you are meeting.  Sometimes it will be a formal gathering such as a business luncheon, conference or industry event.  At other times, you will choose an informal setting such as meeting over a coffee or drinks. 

4.     Consistency

Make business networking a regular part of your weekly and monthly schedule.  Being a consistent networker means that you are planning and attending a set number of personal meetings and functions per month.  Consistent networking is far more effective than a pattern of intensively networking for a few months stopping for a few months, and then starting up again.

5.  Give Before You Get

Business networking is all about building and managing relationships.  If we approach it purely on the basis of what we can get out of it, our self-interest will inevitably show up in our verbal and non-verbal behaviours. 

Instead of self-absorption, look for ways to help the people you want to get to know before you ask them for something for you or your organisation.  What should you give away?  Give items that are important and will add value for the other person or group such as information, resources and qualified referrals.  These are items that don’t cost or disadvantage you, apart from your time.  When you give, you will be remembered and appreciated for your thoughtfulness.

To your Networking Success,

Lynne


Lynne Lloyd
Managing Director 
People Results 
1300 167 981 
enquiries@peopleresults.com.au 
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Sunday, 3 February 2013

Only One Extraordinary Manager - Part 1

I’ve had quite a few managers in my career; and most have been reasonably good at the craft of managing.  (By necessity managing is hands-on and practical so I think of it as a craft.)  Only one was extraordinary and stands out as the finest exemplar.  He was my manager for eight years or so in the academic publishing industry.  Now happily retired, his name is Patrick Walsh.

So, what was it about Patrick Walsh that stands out like a beacon of light surpassing all others? 

There are many reasons which I have grouped under the headings of:
  • Character

  • Communication

  • Consistency

In this first of three short articles, I plan to write some words on the first one of Pat’s abovelisted management/leadership abilities.

Character

As each of his team members got to know Pat, we all discovered his strong and courageous character.  He worked hard and long hours.  He did not ask more of us than he demanded of himself. 
His self-discipline and dedication was evident in his thorough preparation and organisation.  We got the message that there is no substitute for doing the work, and putting in the hours if you want to be successful. 

When we needed his words of wisdom and encouragement, Pat made time.

When we needed his counsel, Pat was there to listen.  When we needed a practical solution, Pat would work it out for us and with us.

When he had to manage “the hard stuff,” Pat was firm and fair.  He did not avoid or shirk the unpleasant task as many managers do.  When one of us said or did the wrong thing, he did not look the other way.  He had the difficult conversations that needed to be had.  We respected him for it.

Another aspect of Pat’s character we all came to know was his curiosity about others and about what and why the world turned around as it did.  Being endlessly curious means never having to be bored even when some of the routine tasks of managing must have been repetitive and tiresome for Pat. 

Through everything, Pat set the gold standard for his team and kept going.  He modelled the value of persistence, of digging in and not letting go.  No matter what the problem or challenge, Pat persisted. 

Part of Pat’s extraordinary character was his courage.  He went in to bat for his team on issues that made him quite unpopular with the senior managers at various times.  We – his team members – always knew that Pat would take up our issues with the executives of the company.  He didn’t always win but he always tried hard to win for us.  We knew that. 

Another aspect of Pat’s character was (and is) his essential humanity which you could see in his twinkling blue eyes.  He was very kind, caring and humorous.  He always saw the funny side of a situation.  Often he restrained his laughter until he could no longer keep it in and it burst out of him. 
We knew when it was coming like a gigantic sneeze you can’t contain.  Sure enough, his laughter would set off everyone else laughing with him.

The net effect of Pat’s strong character was the total respect we all developed for him as our manager/leader.  When we respect another human being, we move quickly into trusting him/her.  We know he/she will act in our best interests.  We want to return their trust and do our best and achieve our best.  We will walk over the “hot coals” and do what is difficult and persist to live up to our manager’s expectations.  We want to shine in their eyes.  We think, “How can I live up to Pat’s example?”  “How can I get better?”  “What would Pat say or do in this situation?”

Through their example, do we take on some of our manager/leader’s character?  Yes, I am sure of it.  To develop into an extraordinary manager/leader, firstly we must work on our own character and be the sort of person that others will follow, respect, admire and want to emulate. 

 
In the next article in this three-part series, I will focus on Pat’s extraordinary communication abilities.

What do you think makes a great manager/leader?  It would be great to have the benefits of your experience and thoughts on this topic.

Have a Great Week!

Lynne



Lynne Lloyd

People Results
Executive Coaching ~ Talent Development Programs
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T    1300 167 981
M  0421 998749
E    lynne.lloyd@peopleresults.com.au
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